Label Me This.

In Mentalization, Ponder, Real Life No Gimmicks on February 7, 2011 at 15:56

Many relationships fail because people deem it necessary to label their relationships, either too soon or at all. Some things don’t need to have a name. Some things work better if they are allowed to just flow rather than being forced to fit a form that may not fit naturally. And people don’t get that. It seems simple, but it’s the reason why so many relationships are near perfect, when just friends, and then change drastically when titles become involved. For some reason titles make people feel more entitled. Especially the un-entitled.

Thoughts for consumption. Ponder it.

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  2. I think ppls need to label things…is driven by the need to establish boundaries. We want to know, are we exclusive? are we dating other ppl? are YOU dating other ppl? should i be dating other ppl? and once feelings get involved…and hearts are on the line… those become important questions. i know in my past, that has been my main reason for asking…WHAT ARE WE????? lol *shrug*

  3. Really awesome point you’ve arrived at! I think we grow accustomed to labeling or else we experience a sense of incompleteness. And in order to not label things we would have to unlearn it, which becomes a difficult task within itself leading into a whole different topic. Thanks for sharing V!

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