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Absurd Notions.

In Mentalization, Ponder, Thoughts for Consumption on June 13, 2011 at 16:34

To name a few…

Any one religion or spiritual belief is superior to another.
What births such a thought that makes your ideals any greater than anyone else’?

Only idiots encounter error.
It takes a thinker to recognize error and correct it, only an ignoramus individual will stand by an idea even after they know it to be untrue.

Love is fallible.
One could only believe such because they have never experienced an authentic encounter with love in its purest form.

“It ain’t trickin’ if you got it.” “Make it rain on these hoes.” and other lyrics that proclaim and support senseless splurging on women.
If you uphold such ideas, you should never fix your mouth to call a woman a gold digger. You’re the one who supplied the shovel.

The absence of truth is equivalent to a lie.
You’re not asking the right questions…

Absurd notions. Think before you speak. Be conscious of what you believe.

#Ponder

In Focus, Mentalization, Ponder, Thoughts for Consumption on May 11, 2011 at 16:30

The smuggled truth comes out when you’re angry.

Think about all the hurtful, yet truthful things you’ve said to people simply because you were angry.

Embellishments are produced when you’re overtly blissful.

Imagine all the things you cook up when a person asks how you’ve been since they’ve last seen you.

In either case, have you ever been surprised about some of the shit that has come out of your mouth upon retrospect?

It makes me wonder… Are we ever really as happy as we portray ourselves to be or do we simply begin to believe the things we say, over time. And are we ever totally honest to the point where our truth matches our emotions, because emotions don’t lie, no matter what the circumstances are.

Something to consider.

Truths.

In Mentalization, Ponder, Real Life No Gimmicks, Thoughts for Consumption on May 8, 2011 at 13:08

There’s some truth in all that you hear. You must know what to listen for. The truth may not lie in the subject matter, it may not lie in the words, but it lies within the character of the person who speaks. Listen closely. They are expressing inadvertent truths about themselves.

Anyone can create a lie, but it takes a clever genius to conceal the truth. Very few are capable.

Curiosity Licked the Cat.

In Hot and Tempting, Mentalization on April 19, 2011 at 22:37

I can see the curiosity in your eyes. You ain’t gotta be homo to let me kick it between your thighs. Don’t try to hide. I’ll be your dirty little secret wrapped in a pleasant surprise. Perhaps a disguise. I have a thing for PYT’s. And don’t worry I’ve never been a fan of strings. But your fantasies… Yeah… We can do all those things. You say you prefer being discreet? Yo, I like that too. Let me tell you a story. It starts with me, but it’ll always end with you. If you give me the power, I promise to give you the glory. And that’s a wrap. End of story. ;)

Brain Work.

In Mentalization, Ponder on April 4, 2011 at 17:43

Three friends split the cost of a hotel room that cost $30. They pay $10 each. The front desk clerk later realizes that the room really only costs $25 so she summons the Bellboy, gives him the $5 to refund to the 3 guests. The Bellboy decides that he’d give each guest $1 each and keep $2 for himself. So now each guest technically only paid $9 for the room. 9×3=27 and the Bellboy kept $2 so that totals $29. What happened to the last dollar?

Crazies and Maybes…

In Mentalization, Ponder, Real Life No Gimmicks on February 18, 2011 at 16:36

Sometimes life gets so crazy, that its experiences amaze me. It’s like I’m living in today for certain, but why so many maybe’s.

I’m a lover for sure. And today I love a little bit more, but now I’m feeling like I shouldn’t love, love anymore. Perhaps I’m unsure. But love and I have developed this bizarre relationship that I absolutely live for.

To be or not to be, ultimately happy. Some days are better than others, but no single day is like another. Sometimes happiness is difficult for grasping – one day you have it and the next day you’re lacking. Maybe… happiness isn’t for having. That’s the erratic thing.

But who am I to say… I’m not an expert anyway, just experienced at discovering, and making something of nothing.

I figured since I’ll live a lot more… I’ll learn a bunch more. And I’ll write quite a bit more. Perhaps meet some new women along the way, that I’ll potentially adore. But I can’t be certain, for sure, so until then I’ll just say:

Maybe…
Shit is crazy.

Love is…

In Lover's Lane, Mentalization, Ponder, Real Life No Gimmicks on February 10, 2011 at 17:28

Love is…
candor and it knows no lie
Love is…
the unadulterated truth, minus an alibi
Love is…
tunnel vision, it’s all you see
Love is…
maturity at its highest peak
Love is…
an ecstasy filled rapture that’s capturing
Love is…
knowledge, all knowingly
Love is…
an incurable addiction
Love is…
a tragedy without a witness
Love is…
deeper than profoundness
Love is…
a stick up and everyone’s surrounded
Love is…
an acquired patience
Love is…
terrifically devastating
Love is…
bold, yet a simple statement
Love is…
the epitome of all things naked.

Love is…

Unequivocal.
Divisible.
Essential.
Intangible.

Love is…
because it just is.

#WisdomWednesday

In Focus, Mentalization, Ponder, Real Life No Gimmicks on February 9, 2011 at 16:15

Open your heart and let the new day in. Live today as if tomorrow doesn’t exist, since technically it doesn’t… yet. Today is all we know, yet many of us live our lives in advance as if the days to come are for sure. They’re not. Don’t put off ’til tomorrow what you can accomplish today. We need to regain focus and embrace truths. We must live out our days to its full potential. Otherwise, our lives are only half-lived.

You are the Inspiration. My words are Supplemental.

The ultimate goal at hand is to continue to proceed with life, in a positive direction. Not speaking from expertise, merely speaking from experience. Onward and Upward. Let’s go!

Label Me This.

In Mentalization, Ponder, Real Life No Gimmicks on February 7, 2011 at 15:56

Many relationships fail because people deem it necessary to label their relationships, either too soon or at all. Some things don’t need to have a name. Some things work better if they are allowed to just flow rather than being forced to fit a form that may not fit naturally. And people don’t get that. It seems simple, but it’s the reason why so many relationships are near perfect, when just friends, and then change drastically when titles become involved. For some reason titles make people feel more entitled. Especially the un-entitled.

Thoughts for consumption. Ponder it.

#MotivationMonday

In Focus, Mentalization, Ponder on February 7, 2011 at 13:31

The way life happens depends mainly upon your perception.

Are terrible things happening to you or are you simply perceiving them as so? Ponder.

Perception is everything.

The ultimate goal at hand is to continue to proceed with life, in a positive direction. Not speaking from expertise, merely speaking from experience. Onward and Upward. Let’s go!

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